LET'S HAVE A HALLOWEEN CATCH-UP! BY SANDRA HARRIS.


LET’S HAVE A HALLOWEEN CATCH-UP!

BY SANDRA HARRIS. ©

It seems like ages since I wrote anything personal so I thought a dreary Monday afternoon in the run-up to Halloween might be a good time for a chat. Speaking of Halloween, I’ve officially decided that it’s my favourite festival of the year, even more so than Christmas.

Don’t get me wrong, I love Christmas and I’ve had some magical festive seasons, but I’m fed up with the terrible commercialisation of Christmas. The pressure to spend money on certain things is ridiculous. In previous years, I’ve given in to it like a turkey to the slaughter, but no more!

No more tubs of feckin’ Celebrations, Cadbury’s Roses, Miniature Heroes and Quality Street that will be still sitting there in the cupboard in March. No more chocolate-covered toffees, sexy-delicious as they are, and no more of the boxes of jellies, fudge or liquorice sweets with the smiling Santa on the box, because, you know, our teeth, lol. And in what universe would anyone ever need more than two boxes of mince pies? No-one eats them after Christmas, anyway.

No more stupid boxes of stupid crackers; they’re filled with shite that’s broken before you can unfurl the bad joke and the paper hat. No buying more than one Christmas cake just because I love the little festive scenes depicted in the icing. I’m the only person in my house who eats Christmas cake, so why do we need seven of the things…?

My kids and I are agreed also that, this Christmas, we’ll be down-sizing on the presents side of things as well, because we always buy each other too much. Which is lovely, but we’re running out of places to put things. So, this year, only one or two small presents for everyone. Besides, my kids are both adults now, so why was I queuing outside Dublin’s biggest toy-shop last December on a Sunday morning waiting for it to open…? Because someone wanted Pokemon plushies, that’s why…

Halloween is simpler, at least in my family. We dig out the little spooky ornaments we’ve bought over the years and put them around the place. We buy a little pumpkin but we don’t usually mutilate it because we is well soft-hearted, innit.

Buy a few nuts and apples and a barm brack with a ring in it for consumption on the night and bob’s your apple. I mean, Uncle. As I’m the only person in the house who eats the barm brack (a sort of cake-bread with currants and raisins in it which you slice and butter), I’m pretty much guaranteed to get the ring and be a bride before the year is out. Woo-hoo! Better get my trousseau in order. Now wherever did I put those petticoats…?

During the month of October, we read or re-read spooky books- I love a good ghost story or haunted house tale- and we watch or re-watch horror films, normally ones we’ve loved for years like NIGHT OF THE LIVING DEAD, CARRY ON SCREAMING, THE FOG or THE SHINING.

Then the kids tease me about how the ghostly mariners from THE FOG are gonna come and bang on my bedroom door four times so I end up sleeping sitting up with all the lights on and the wardrobe pushed in front of said door. It makes running to the loo very problematic but what can you do…?

I do believe we’re streaming Disney Plus this autumn so we’ll be able to binge-watch the TREEHOUSE OF HORROR episodes of THE SIMPSONS, a definite Halloween staple in our house. Also, there are lots of delightfully spooky places to visit in Dublin like Marsh’s Library, Dublin’s oldest library and one in which Bram Stoker did some of the research for his magnum opus, DRACULA, and the Mummies of Saint Michan’s Church down on the quays, so we’d normally make at least one grisly expedition like that in October.

What am I currently doing, writing-wise? Well, I’ve almost finished penning two-hundred-plus pages of a personal memoir about a time in my life that I feel might be of interest to other people. I won’t be rushing straight into self-publishing it or looking for a traditional publisher for it immediately. This one I’m going to leave sit for a while, a few months or maybe longer. The relief of finally having written it at long last, after saying I was going to write it for years, is the main thing for me. What happens to it later, well, we’ll see.

The old gas cooker that served me faithfully for twenty-three years is finally winding down. So, we have to buy a new cooker, which looks like it’s going to cost the earth, but not only that. There’s a whole big process that has to take place around it.

The old one has to be taken out by a Registered Gas Installer (not just Daniel O’Donnell popping round to Sr. Assumpta’s for tea and cakes!) and hauled away for scrap or whatever they do to old cookers. Then, the new one has to be carefully connected, preferably by the same Registered Gas Installer, and then and only then are you cooking with gas, lol. It’s going to be a major pain in the tits, but better now than at Christmas…!

Hamster-wise, we are down to just one tiny little hybrid Russian dwarf hamster, who’s about the size of a Brussels sprout, lol. It’ll be his first birthday this coming Sunday, and isn’t the time after flying, all the same! The last of our beautiful Syrian hamsters passed away in October 2022, and we’ve had none since because the pet shops just don’t stock them any more.

Our local pet shop owner blames Brexit for this; it’s apparently something to do with the cost of transporting the wee critters from England to Ireland now that England isn’t in the EU any longer. There’s therefore a lot of pressure on our little dwarf hamster to stay alive for the longest possible time, because, when he goes, that looks like it… 

I’m enjoying this year’s STRICTLY COME DANCING, and am totally cheering for the dreamy Nigel Harman, formerly Dennis Rickman from EASTENDERS. He’s aged beautifully, like the finest of fine wines, and if he popped up in my Christmas stocking, I’d be well chuffed, I can tell you. As the song goes, who could ask for anything more…?

Toodle-oo until our next catch-up,

Your bewildered friend,

Sandra Harris.

    

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