BONNIE BLUE AND THE DEATH OF FEMINISM. BY SANDRA HARRIS.

BONNIE BLUE AND THE DEATH OF FEMINISM.

BY SANDRA HARRIS. ©

Jesus, Mary and Joseph. What’s gone wrong in the world of women? This last week in particular hasn’t been a good one for feminism. Bonnie Blue, real name Tia Billinger, has received a permanent ban from subscription platform OnlyFans after the platform decided that her ‘extreme challenges’ were not permitted under their Acceptable Use Policy and Terms of Service.

The twenty-six-year-old British woman ‘rose’ to ‘fame,’ or should that be infamy, after having sex with one-thousand-and-fifty-seven men in a twenty-four-hour period. Now, I still have difficulty believing that statement.

Maybe, just maybe, it could be done if every guy in the queue was hard and ready to go- excuse my bluntness- but what about men who needed extra stimulation in the form of hand- or blow-jobs prior to actual penetration, as is often the case in real life?

That would have slowed the whole process down by miles. Did she have someone else there with her to take care of this necessary grunt work, which I hadn’t heard, or were the guys who weren’t penetration-ready simply elbowed out of the way to the cry of, ‘Next…!’

Also, the human vagina is a tough little organ, built to withstand the rough-and-tumble of childbirth (that’s one way of putting it), but is it safe or healthy to take that many cocks into itself in such a short period of time? And what about sexually transmitted diseases? Were all the men involved wearing condoms? Again, that in itself takes time and planning.

What kind of guy would line up to use a woman as a ‘cum-bucket’ (her words) in this way? There’s a story told that a woman saw her boyfriend in the queue as it was being live-streamed (of course it was) and stormed over to wherever it was to yank him out of it and drag him home. Other stories have it that it was the guy’s mum and not his girlfriend.

If it were me, I’d have serious questions to ask of a man who was willing to put his unprotected wiener where a thousand and fifty-six other lads were also sticking theirs. Like, why…? I put this question to a female contemporary and she just rolled her eyes and said, ‘it’s a free hole, isn’t it…?’ Seriously, guys. Come on.

Anyway, the ‘extreme challenge’ that proved to be the final straw for OnlyFans was a bizarre stunt that also sounds like the most dangerous undertaking ever. Bonnie Blue’s ‘Petting Zoo,’ which was to take place on June the fifteenth in ‘a house in London,’ had BB planning to be tied up and gagged in a glass display case, with her ‘holes’ on full display and freely accessible to all and sundry.

Up to two thousand men- in an attempt to break the record she probably set last time- would then step up one at a time to do ‘anything they wanted’ to her. Fuck her, spank her, wee or poop on her, pull her hair, ejaculate on her, the list goes on. As I believe I said in my opening- excuse the pun- Jesus, Mary and Joseph.

Like, I’m sure she’d have had security guards present but what if some madman smuggled in a knife/gun/acid or anything else like that with the intention of doing her harm? There wouldn’t have been a thing BB herself would have been able to do about it. She’d have been helpless.

And what if doing ‘anything they want’ included pooping in a bucket and tipping it over her head? That’s not sexy. That’s not fun. (Except for, maybe, coprophiles.) Had she really thought that one through? What is wrong with this girl? A fellow OnlyFans model has called her operation a ‘clown show’ and I’m not seeing anything online that would make me want to disagree with her.

Why does BB have the urge to shock with this type of outrageous and anti-social shenanigans? Trauma or abandonment in childhood usually holds the key to such behaviour. Who is looking out for her interests? Does she have anyone at all in her life to sit her down and tell her that this is not how normal people behave and that she's mainly just hurting herself? Where are her parents? Her siblings? Close friends?

And, while many men may fantasise about Bonnie Blue sexually or engage in lewd, jokey conversations about her with ‘the lads,’ how many would actually want to marry her, or have children with her or take her home to meet their mum and dad?

My guess is that most decent blokes wouldn’t want a meaningful relationship with someone with whom sex would be like ‘throwing a sausage up O’Connell Street,’ as we say here in Ireland. Don’t most men, despite their bravado, want to be made to feel special by the woman they choose to settle down with? How special would you feel if your chosen intended had had more traffic up her than the M1...?

The fact that BB has promised that for her next ‘trick,’ she’ll do something ‘even worse,’ again her words, kind of makes me wonder if she’s even right in the head. I’m no prude, by the way, in case you think I am; in fact, I’m a writer of erotica myself, but this whole thing is sick. I guess all I can do is hope that BB gets the help she so obviously needs.

In other feminist news this week, singer Sabrina Carpenter is in trouble for the cover of her new album, Man’s Best Friend. The glamorous but clearly over-sexualised singer is shown on all fours with a mostly out-of-shot male dragging her along by the hair. Women’s groups say the cover is not ‘edgy,’ but ‘regressive,’ and just serves to glamorise rape culture and male-on-female violence, which is at an all-time high across the world.

And finally, actress Sydney Sweeney is apparently raking it in as her new soap product, ‘Bathwater Bliss,’ hilariously infused with the scent of ‘Morning Wood,’ is selling like hot cakes to men worldwide. It’s her own bathwater that’s supposedly being used to make the soap, by the way, and you can buy it online for $1,500 from randomers now that the soap is sold out at the official source.

Speaking of bathwater, there must be something in the bathwater that is making the women of the Western world degrade themselves like this for the enjoyment and edification of men. In a society ruled by men where women have all but been turned into props for the sexual gratification of these same men, it’s kind of sad that, in order to garner any kind of attention for ourselves, we have to make ourselves complicit in it too.